What parameters do you look in your g.f/b.f?

Well I look for followin parameters (in ascending order).....

1. Rational
2. Trustworthy
3. Maturity
4. Shud hve high acceptance level, so tht I can share nething with her.
5. Good General Knowledge
6. Responsibility
7. Unorthodox
8. Rebellious
9. Understandin
10. Bloggin
11. Good at bed
12. Emotional
13. Caring
14. Arrogance
15. Good communication
16. Good dressin sense
17. Smoker n drinker (ocassionally is also done)
18. Looks
19. Vital Stastictics

Last but not the least she shud love me , LOL.

Neway above points r subjective. N the points from 12th to 19th can b lil bit compromised by me. It depends how intense 1th to 11th points are.

So whtz ur parameters???

MALE CHAUVINIST

Well it has 10 days since I m here in Switzerland, and the trip has been quite borin as usual. Neway fortunately or unfortunately sum of my colleagues of Rieter India (of sum other branch) hve landed up here.

Last Sunday as I had sum work so I stayed back at my hotel, reading sum technical documents. So in afternoon one of my colleagues came to meet at my hotel room (on later on part I will refer him as MCP (Male chauvinist pig) which my sweetheart calls me affectionately x-( )

MCP: Hi vishal how r u
Me: Well fine as usual

After sum trivial talks

Me: Uhh do u hve ne g.f?
MCP: Nope, but I m getting married by December, hve fixed a girl!!
Me: fixed a girl (wht a fuckin language is he talking). Ahh very good, congratulations

After sum discussion abt the girl her whereabts n wht she is doin etc

Me: Errr do u expect ur wud b wife to b VIRGIN? (I dunno y I asked him this question)
MCP: Wht the hell are you talking, of course she shud b virgin
Me: Ahh hmm y?
MCP: Wht y, cause I m virgin so she shud b.
Me: Wow wht an answer , oh ya ur rite, hmmm wud u expect her to u abusive words, like normally guys do or even u do?
MCP: Ofcourse not
Me: Good , aaah do u expect her to smoke as u?
MCP: Are u gone mad vishal, of course not
Me: BTW y r u marryin?
MCP: To get over my lonliness, and for sum sex too
Me: Wht the fuck, Oh good ya UR RIGHT!!!


I dunno why males in INDIA are so chauvinist… Why they expect their wife’s to be virgin, shud utter only good worlds , shud not smoke, booze wht ever in short shud have good qualities of “adarsh bahu”, while they can do whtever they want.

As I m virgin, hence she shud b virgin. Now wht kinda answer is tht. Why is ur morality or character a benchmark for her. She shudnt smoke, why the hell she shudnt when u can smoke?

And I m marrying to get over my loneliness and as I m deprived of sex these many years. Now all my fundamentals of marriage got just fucked up by this answer.

Y do u marry? For sex? For removing ur loneliness? Mite b they can b one of the parameters for getting married but certainly not the only parameters.

Neway I didn’t talk much with him after tht day after knowin his mentality.

FREEDOM

M. F Hussain's Painting of INDIA.

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My stand for Homosexuality

Homosexuality. Wow, even the most rational and liberal minds distant themselves for discussion on this topic. Conservatives mites say that this is "against nature", "unnatural", "abnormal".
First of all let’s define “against nature” or “unnatural” word. Well I think this means, things which are not occurring according nature's law or not found in nature. Let’s forget humans, homosexual behavior has been observed animal kingdom in 1500 species and 500 of them is documented. Now if all this things are found in animal kingdom then I don’t think this things are so called "unnatural"

Now let’s define abnormal. It means things which are not normal or normally people don't do it or majority doesn't do it. Then I think even atheism is abnormal, even Sachin Tendulkar is abnormal guy cause talent he poses no other normal human-being has. (Well I think the comparison was bad).

I can't understand how homosexuality can harm society. This relationship is mutually agreed by two adults of same sex, and their relationship doesn't harm them or the society. Its just a pure form of love, homosexuals love each other with same intensity as any other "normal" heterosexuals will do.

Is sexual orientation by choice? Well I think it’s not because of choice but for most people, sexual orientation emerges in early adolescence without any prior sexual experience. Although we can choose whether to act on our feelings, psychologists do not consider sexual orientation to be a conscious choice that can be voluntarily changed.

So guys just enjoy been in love, whether with same sex or opposite sex or even with both.

I am not expecting anybody to comment on this topic, same as I never expected nebody to comment of CANNABIS post. I don't know why people are afraid to comment on such "unnatural" and "abnormal" topics.

What is Love ?

My girlfriend is gonna screw me for this blog. LOL. She mite become paranoid of my "constant love" towards her. We had a discussion regarding love, according to her "love" of a person towards another person should be constant through the life. Mite be the person be your husband/wife, father/mother, friends. First of all what is love? After lot of introspection, I just concluded what is love? (Highly subjective). Why don't we fall in love with any one, why don’t we fall in love with mentally handicapped person, physically handicapped person, with a irritating person, with a boring person, with your maid/servant, with any people of other religion, with lower caste people, with people who doesn’t match your mentality, with your enemies, with some prostitute, with people having bad looks, with person who doesn’t earn, with fat people, with people with same sex, with a psycho, why, why why? Why we want the person whom we love to care for us, should earn good amount money, should have respectable position, should be intelligent, should be smart, should be handsome/beautiful, should have good figure/physic, should be fair, should have good speech, show affection towards us, should not be addictive to smoke, should not be addictive to alcohol, should not have bad habits, why, why why? Isn't that all selfish. LOVE IS SELFISH. In the category of selfishness it holds the paramount position, which people don’t realise.

Why you love your friends, boyfriend/girlfriend is because of your selfishness. Then how can selfishness be constant throughout your life? Your selfishness keeps on changing throughout your life. What happens if your boyfriend/girlfriend physically and mentally abuses you thorough your life, still then your love will be constant for him/her. What happens if your bf/gf discards you, then also your love will be constant for him/her. What happens if your spouse tells that he/she won’t have sex with you any more throughout the life, still then your love will remain constant (If not then its lust, again highly subjective). Why is love so much demanding? Why does your bf/gf want you to give him/her paramount importance? Why are you so much possessive about your gf/bf? What happens if you suddenly see your gf/bf talking away to glory with opposite sex at a restaurant? Doesn’t that hurt you? Aren’t you selfish, aren’t you egoistic.

If you think this selfishness is ok, normal then all kind of selfishness and egoism should be ok. A person who is highly selfish should not be considered as a bad guy. A person, who doesn’t help others, backstabs at his friends/colleagues for his/her own benefit should not be considered bad person. A politician who makes people fight/hate each other on basis of religion/caste/language for his own selfish interest shouldn’t be considered bad. A person who doesn’t follow traffic rules for his own selfish interest shouldn’t be considered bad. A person who kills somebody else for his own selfish interest shouldn’t be considered as bad person.

Aren’t we been hypocrite by showing different attitude to different type of selfishness.

Mite be I m cynic, but that’s my perspective.

Anyway hail LOVE, that is one of the most beautiful thing ever to happen to me, even though selfish. And I am enjoying it.

Ignorance regarding CANNABIS

What the hell, Why is this guy talking about cannabis suddenly? Has he gone mad? All drugs are same. Doesn't he knows how harmful is drugs? Drugs are so addictive they kill people? Drugs users talk bullshit while taking drugs? They become addictive and do nothing in life. It is the worst thing every happened to mankind. It should be banned.


Ok guys before you start to post your conjecture opinions more on cannabis, how much of you have done research on cannabis, grass, hash, LSD? Let me start by classifying different type of drugs. Basically there are three types


1. Hard drugs: These type drugs are physically highly addictive, easier to overdoes, posing serious health and social risks and have high physical withdrawal symptoms. Example of this kind of substance is Cocaine, Heroin, Morphine, Alcohol and nicotine (tobacco).

2. Soft drugs: These type of drugs have very less physical addictiveness, and pose no or very less withdrawal symptoms. Example of this kind of substance is Cannabis, LSD, Grass and Hash (Ganja and Charas in Hindi).

In-between drugs are stuffs which have properties in between Hard and Soft drugs for e.g. caffeine.

So as you can see the effect of Alcohol and nicotine are more harmful compared to cannabis (Ganja and Charas). So what is the problem if people smoke cannabis and why should it made illegal in INDIA, when alcohol and tobacco are been sold legally. This is height of ignorance and hypocrisy.

Country like Netherlands has high tolerance towards possession of cannabis and they have many coffeshops in which person can buy and smoke cannabis freely.

By the way the above stuff is quite subjective and matter of discretion. Please do some research before commenting on this topic.

Staying in INDIA

Tolerating Indian mentality has become very irritating for me these days. Sometimes I think why, why I am in this country, when I have the opportunity to got and reside in some developed country and spend a quality life there.

You have overcrowded city transport system. During peak hours I cannot take the city bus to go anywhere, as all are jam-packed. Taking auto is another pain in your ass. You have to argue with the autowalas for the fare, which should be applicable to the destination.

Then riding bike in this “god made” roads just screws your head. No traffic discipline, just people riding according to their leisure. Road full of potholes or should I say pothole with sum road on it. There are no proper footpaths for pedestrian to walk.

People spiting tobacco on the road, footpath and even on stairs. So much pollution and suspended particles in atmosphere.

Also for good life, the ratio of money spend to money earned is less in developed countries compared to INDIA.

And most of the INDIANS have very irrational mentality. Be it belief in god, lack traffic discipline, work culture, selecting your political leader, behaving with others, not having unconventional ideas, not respecting people from other religions, caste, language, not respecting physical as well as mentally handicapped people, irrational perception of sex, drugs, not respecting homosexual peoples, concept of arrange marriage, concept of staying with your parents, liking for fair people. So many hypocrites, bigots and irrational people here. The list is too long.

Why should I stay in such kind of environment? Some fanatic will say, that you should be patriotic to your country and shouldn’t speak like this and do something for your country rather than discussing. Some people even say me traitor. See first of all I am a selfish guy like any normal human being, when I have opportunity to go out why shouldn’t I? Don’t people change their company, city, state to work in some other place? Aren’t they patriotic to their company, city or state?

Its not like that I am going for money to some other country, I am earning a good amount of money to suffice my needs, but I cannot tolerate such irrationality. Why should I waste my life is such bad ambience, I alone cannot change the system. So better go in some good system.