Well this post I am writing on my experience as well as seeing other people’s experience on extensive use of virtual world for personal satisfaction.
Well this post is not on people who talk with their “real” friends through internet, but this is on people who try to make friends (well I think everyone try to make b.f/g.f thru it) and also people who write their personal experiences on their blog.
Y do people do this? Well if I conclude these kinda people who extensively are hooked up to virtual world, have certain flaws in them. I cannot describe the flaw, but it is something due to which they cannot find themselves attractive enough to stimulate opposite sex. And the easier medium for them is “virtual world”.
Well chatting is dimensionless. People can’t see your flaws and you can easily camouflage you flaws on Internet. You can talk with confidence with the opposite sex cause neither they can see you or cant recognize your flaws. But ultimately they don’t realize that they meet people in real world and have to live life in the real world. So instead of taking shortcut and finding friends in virtual world, I can suggest them to find their flaws and improve upon them so that they can make friends in the real world who are more reliable and honest compared to friends in virtual world.
Also people share their personal experience on blogs. Well I have lot of friends with whom I can share things with them, so I don’t require the help of blog to share things with persons whom I hardly know. Yeah they can comment, but they hardly know me and which kinda situation or circumstances I hve been through, so I wont find their comment quite related to me. I think this kinda people want to communicate with strangers and share things with them cause somewhere in real world they cant do it. They hve certain flaws which are keeping themselves away from the real people of real world.
So I don’t know whether these people (these people, I think I am categorizing them LOL) should introspect the role of virtual world in their life. They shud concentrate on the flaws in them cause of which they have got hooked up to virtual world and try to improve the flaws to have better life in real world.
Wednesday, 11 June 2008
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
Posts
10 comments:
jeena hain to jeena hian jeena jeena hain... jee raha hoon mein....
This is the only song... i remevr after reading this...
somehw.. it happens.. that what u think...I usually think opp to that:-))
about "these people"... dont agree with you...:-))
may be 1 % people come to this place due to some flaws... but sharing about ur personal things here... its fine I guess... if people are fine to let u know..what is going in thr lives... we dont have to bother baout it... or think that they mite have flaw that they are coming here:-))
Well if u hve friends to share everything, wht is the purpose to share things in virtual world to unknown strangers. Y u get tempted to write personal things on blogs?
If u closely introspect there is a reason. There is gap in communication with your friends. Thats y people hook up to virtual world....
i think i know the source of inspiration of these thoughts... true to an extent... fl every one has them.... people work on them, to rectify, some suceed, some fail n try again..... some fail again and try again, some fail and dont try again, some keep trying for life......
I can recognize myself in the first Category..the ones who try and fail and dont try again.... the flaw in them is not the flaw... but the fact that they tried to find a shortcut from their problem......i think thats where the key lies... not to try again...
i also have friends, but most of them cant even relate to a word i write in my posts....all they say is "well written".... most of them are into softwares.... when i talk to them about my blog all they say is "bhaari ho gaya, yaar!!"
its just a way out....albeit a wrong one... some ppl realize it soon, some sooner, some late some too late.....
(flaw* every one has them.....)
LOL...
reasons:
1.to make new frds...
2.and when u are in ofc... apart frm wrk...blogging keeps you bit kewl..:-))
3. Its fastest and easiest way of connecting to people which does nt even require a penny of urs to get wasted...
:-))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
trust me...its beyond about those temptations...:-))
Real or Virtual, people are who they are wherever they go.
Keshi.
@Keshi..
Agreed..
But isnt it difficult to understand people when ur communicating them thru virtual world !!!
Aint the probability of mis-understandin higher???
I agree. But trying to 'understand' ppl in real life isnt that easy either :)
Keshi.
i guess you know my point on this, having flaws or not, people are communicating there, reasons are individual. Important is to get balance between real and virtual and dont make internet the LIFE
@lena
Yeah I agree to ur point, don't make internet/bloggin/chattin your life.
Post a Comment