Wednesday, 9 April 2008


Well it has 10 days since I m here in Switzerland, and the trip has been quite borin as usual. Neway fortunately or unfortunately sum of my colleagues of Rieter India (of sum other branch) hve landed up here.

Last Sunday as I had sum work so I stayed back at my hotel, reading sum technical documents. So in afternoon one of my colleagues came to meet at my hotel room (on later on part I will refer him as MCP (Male chauvinist pig) which my sweetheart calls me affectionately x-( )

MCP: Hi vishal how r u
Me: Well fine as usual

After sum trivial talks

Me: Uhh do u hve ne g.f?
MCP: Nope, but I m getting married by December, hve fixed a girl!!
Me: fixed a girl (wht a fuckin language is he talking). Ahh very good, congratulations

After sum discussion abt the girl her whereabts n wht she is doin etc

Me: Errr do u expect ur wud b wife to b VIRGIN? (I dunno y I asked him this question)
MCP: Wht the hell are you talking, of course she shud b virgin
Me: Ahh hmm y?
MCP: Wht y, cause I m virgin so she shud b.
Me: Wow wht an answer , oh ya ur rite, hmmm wud u expect her to u abusive words, like normally guys do or even u do?
MCP: Ofcourse not
Me: Good , aaah do u expect her to smoke as u?
MCP: Are u gone mad vishal, of course not
Me: BTW y r u marryin?
MCP: To get over my lonliness, and for sum sex too
Me: Wht the fuck, Oh good ya UR RIGHT!!!

I dunno why males in INDIA are so chauvinist… Why they expect their wife’s to be virgin, shud utter only good worlds , shud not smoke, booze wht ever in short shud have good qualities of “adarsh bahu”, while they can do whtever they want.

As I m virgin, hence she shud b virgin. Now wht kinda answer is tht. Why is ur morality or character a benchmark for her. She shudnt smoke, why the hell she shudnt when u can smoke?

And I m marrying to get over my loneliness and as I m deprived of sex these many years. Now all my fundamentals of marriage got just fucked up by this answer.

Y do u marry? For sex? For removing ur loneliness? Mite b they can b one of the parameters for getting married but certainly not the only parameters.

Neway I didn’t talk much with him after tht day after knowin his mentality.