Friday, 16 May 2008

HoNeStY

Well ur in a relationship and u have or had done sumthin wrong which will extremly hurt ur partner. So wht will you do? B honest and tell her/him everything at that moment only or you would tell him/her but after sum time. But wont been honest after some time is a wrong stuff. Means u know after few months or years if u say it wont make much difference , but according to me thats not been honest. Will u accept the honesty of your partner if he/she says she has done sumthing wrong after say couple of months or years?

Whats your TaKe?

9 comments:

Lena said...

thats tough, but i would discuss this right away or couple of days later, because it would keep eating me from inside. And then i realise it would hurt my partner but i would talk on this till we finally clear everything out. But you know for me it all is only fictional, because i cant even imagine to do something so wrong that it would hurt someone i love.

Satan said...

Hey lena,

Good to know you will discuss with you partner instanly, and I really apperciate that. Thou it will hurt me more but I will b happy that he/she has told me the complete truth. Otherwise if u hide the truth and get caught later on that will b more painful for ur partner.

It mite b fictional for you, but intentionally or unintentionally u mite do sumthing wrong cause ur a human being and they are prone to mistakes. How you act or tackle a circumstances it depends upon that, and if you are not sucessful in tacklin that circumstance then it turns out to be a mistake which mite hurt ur partner.

Keshi said...

Satan u hv been a NAUGHTY boy ha
;-)

k jokes apart...

It's very hard to answer that qn in a realistic manner unless Im in that position right now. Cos when it really happens we mite not do wut we say today.


Anyways, I think the best thing to do is say it now..if it's really bothering me and if I was the one who did it, I'd say it now. But if it's something I can live with, I'd not say it for the heck of being so honest, which mite really wreck the r'ship.

Now if Im at the receiving end, I'd like my partner to do exactly the same as above.


**Will u accept the honesty of your partner if he/she says she has done sumthing wrong after say couple of months or years?


It depends on how BIG the mistake was.



Keshi.

Satan said...

I'd not say it for the heck of being so honest, which mite really wreck the r'ship.

Rnt u been so selfish here, aint ur relationship going ahead on false note. Doesnt ur partner is lovin u on sum wrong impression of urs? Isnt he has the rite to know the truth?

It depends on how BIG the mistake was.

Lets say ur partner had a casual sex. Will u accept that if he says after couple of months or years the truth?

Ria said...

i think i wud anyday want to say it right away!!coz i knw if i say it after a few months or yrs its gonna hurt even more....coz i hid it from my partner at tht point of time. actually speakin this wud differ from couple to couple as it depends on wht kinda reationship do u share wth ur partner. In my case both me and my guy value honesty and frankness!

Satan said...

@Ria,

Hey nice to know u n ur guy value honesty and transperency very much. But wid u share ne kinda stuff. Suppose its a mistake, which will hurt ur guy the most. Means he mite even break the relationship, so wud u even be honest that time and tell him the truth?

Chakoli said...

Hmmmmmmm

its hard to say actually....

depends on the situtaion...:_))

Ria said...

yes i wud still tell it to him!coz i m not gud at hidin mistakes and lies...so i knw i wud get caught anyways!

Anvita said...

this is a tough one ya....

but the kind of person i am i think i would land up saying being honest the just right away as it wud eat me inside, n yeah being honest will hurt but atleast one gathered the courage to be honest which might just buy u some concessions, thought it still depends on wat kind of a mistake it was......

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